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Wednesday, October 17, 2007

Life in Ogoki

There is so much to do in a new classroom, and I am trying to figure out what they have been doing, what they can do, etc. Even when I am not here I am always thinking about school!
There are quite a few problems in this community. It almost seems as if we are at the end of the line here where the outside world has forgotten that this place exists. The water has been undrinkable since early summer, and you are supposed to boil it, but there are many people who say not to drink it. I have been very lucky because I live in the same building as the two police officers and they have both been kind enough to share the bottled water they are supplied with. It won't last long though and I am very concerned about that. We have bottled water at the school but the teachers are not allowed to drink it; it is only for the children.
We did not get paid on Monday and no one knows when we will be paid. The director and the other higher ups say things to pacify us, we were given cheques, but then informed that there is no money in the bank.
A lot of the kids choose not to come to school, even as young as kindergarten! Their parents don't care and all children stay out in the pitch black until the wee hours of the morning. One of the teachers asked a grade three girl yesterday why she stayed up so late, wasn't there anyone to tell her it was time to go to bed, to which she replied. "no, we can do whatever we want".
On the weekend one of the older men in the community got abusive with Mike and Sue, two of the teachers. He was yelling and swearing at them telling them they should not be here and to go home. Many things have been stolen from the school, including my eraseable markers, halloween candy, and ziplock bags (all bought by me), and a story book.
In spite of all this, I am in pretty good spirits, I know I can teach the kids some things, and make a bit of a difference in their lives. It will not be an easy road to travel.
I am a somewhat angry that I was not told about the water situation, as this is a vital thing to someone who drinks 3-4 litres a day. Also, my apartment was not ready, and from what the others are telling me, it can cost around 600 dollars to bring in a few weeks of groceries because of the raised prices and shipping. They come from a town 65 kms from the airport in Nakina, which is where you fly into Ogoki from. The director was not straight up with me about a lot of things.
We are having a staff meeting today, so I imagine many of these concerns will be brought up. I don't have a tv, telephone, or internet, so it should be a good show!

Sunday, October 07, 2007

Say goodbye

Time to say goodbye to this chapter of my journey, and hello to the next. I will no longer be posting on this site, but will start a new one about my northern adventures!

Sunday, July 01, 2007

The Korean Cleansing Challenge

I have developed some bad habits here in Korea! Together with Jan and Marnie, I have decided to rid myself of these with a 20 day challenge. Starting tomorrow I will say goodbye to:1. PIZZA HUT PIZZA- I have had a specially made, not on the menu pizza at least once a week for several months, sometimes twice if I am having a rough week.2. 1/2 PINTS OF ICECREAM- this is a long time bad summer time habit of mine. I have been having a few of these a week to ease the stress/boredom/loneliness. 3. MACDONALD'S- have started having cheeseburgers and icecream quite regularly the past few months as I miss home more and more.It will be a challenge for me to let these things go for several reasons:- I eat for comfort- Living in Korea is very challenging for me and I hit a rollercoaster of emotions daily.- I hate cooking!- I miss my home and these things remind me of home.- Korean food is very yucky!I will write some notes here to let you know how I am doing. Feel free to join me in the 20 day challenge and we can support each other!

Tuesday, June 19, 2007

Not an excuse

Everybody knows I don't like it here in Korea; it's no secret. I have listed many reasons and expressed in different posts my feelings on the challenges I've experienced. Lately it seems the days can't pass fast enough. I've run out of interesting things to eat (a limited supply to begin with), I have almost used up all of the positivity I can muster at school since M and I had the big blow up, I seem to be getting more tired with each passing day, and have rather close to no tolerance for anything. Yesterday I got a glimpse of myself, and I didn't like what I saw.

I'm angry, at almost everything it seems, short tempered, very quick to lose my cool (something that almost never happened in my previous life), and cranky too often. My positive, happy go lucky self that returned from Ontario, has taken cover, and this new person has emerged. I spend a lot of time justifying to myself why I don't like it here, why people bug me, etc. It is as if I am drawn to keep myself in the muck and mire. I know I will face a barrage of questions when I get home about my reasons for my dislike of this country, and I tell myself I am mentally preparing my answers.

I am still so hurt and angry about the demise of a friendship. I can't seem to let it go to a peaceful place. I feel as though that experience knocked me off of my mountain of security and self confidence that had taken so long to build.

This is what is swirling around in my newly coloured red head.

My experience here is no excuse to give up on the kids, snap at genuinely nice people, or paint my judgements on a wall for all to see.

Being hurt by others is no excuse to build walls and look down my nose at those I don't understand.

It is no excuse to give up, to check out, to throw in the towel.

I am thankful for the glimpse I had yesterday, but more thankful for the one I had this morning.

Monday, May 21, 2007

Only in Korea





So I went out of town yesterday with a few friends to Yeong-Am, a nearby town that has a huge mountain and a National park. My friends were to climb the mountain and I was to wander the park, find some quiet spot, read, relax, and just have some time to myself. It is so noisy here, it is virtually impossible to find quiet.


Well, ol' Korea stayed true to herself; I did not find quiet!


The mountain was swarming with Koreans dressed in their finest hiking gear. It looked like a Mountain Equipment Co-Op fashion show. There was not much room to wander around that was not uphill towards the mountain top. To top things off, who should arrive right next to me, but Mr Kim!


He has been constantly asking me to come to his house in Yeong-Am. I always decline as he does not speak much English and I am always too tired on the weekends to spend a day fighting to be understood.


Well Mr. Kim decides that I need not hang around the mountain (Wolchuson), I must go to his house. So, he whisked me away to his house, then his son's house, attempting to feed me, etc. I tell him I am only there for an hour or so, then I must get back to my puppy. He takes this to mean that we have an hour together and then he will take me to the bus station!


It is funny and I did see the comical side to it for sure. But, it is also aggravating. He is my boss, (much higher than me in the hierarchy) so I am careful not to offend him. I do appreciate his kindness, but he doesn't even ask, or concern himself with what my plans were. He just decides he will do what he wants with me! His English is good enough to understand what I was doing there and to ask if I want to do things, but in Korea, this is irrelevant. One is expected to simply go along with things. I see the teachers at my school do this all the time.


Finally, I had to put a stop to it, less my trip to carve out a little peace and space away from the constant demands Korea puts on me, turn into another day at school. I kindly told Mr. Kim I needed to walk, I was not hungry, and he took me back to the mountain. (mind you, not without following me around for a bit, lol)


I managed to secure around 15 mins of quiet time...

Video

Check out Jake in his sling:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=udXMG22FXlE

Jake the Destroyer






I affectionately call my puppy this as he barrells through the house knocking everything over in his path, putting his nose in everything! He tries to jump up onto the bed and hauls down anything near him in the process. This however, does not deter him!


Korea

Korean take out: food is delivered in actual dishes, and when you are finished you put the dishes outside your door and the driver will come back and pick them up!
another silly English sign; "fum" rather than "fun"
"pizza", ketchup, peas, corn, and other unidentifieds on bread.
highheels everywhere!
I don't think Nike had this in mind with their slogan "just do it". Most Korean women wear highheels everywhere, with everything, doing everything.

Sunday, May 13, 2007

Meet Jake

After much thought I decided to get another puppy. Initially, I had no intention of going for round two, but when I went into the shop to discuss Jack, there was this cute little guy that stole my heart. I deliberated for two days and against logic (I am in Korea remember?) I got him.

He has been a handful to say the least, but a rather cute one. I really and truly had no idea puppies were such hard work! I don't have our future all planned out yet (believe it or not), but he is bringing me a lot of joy right now, and that is something I definitely need! Meet Jake...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l8O_GPdwbfU

Funny

Check it out: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y75RmUKoOZw

A Beautiful Day in the Neighbourhood

Jan's first time so she needed a little help!



Marnie


Moi
Les trois filles (not my hat!)

Rollerblade vendor with cool hat :)

Today I dragged myself out the door into the bright sunshine. I called my buddies and got them out too! We started at MacDonald's for breakfast, went to Peace Square and rollerbladed, then back to MacDonald's for icecream.



Check out the korean women riding their bike... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FvSM0W4nN80

Thursday, May 10, 2007

Pictures

Can I wrap my calbi in this?
We're happy, on our way to the Outback to eat REAL food!
SoYeong and me
Super duper toilet. You can even get a shower... just ask Jan!
Space age hand dryer

So Yeong interviewing me

This video is of one of my grade three extra class students interviewing me. It is quite funny!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IW_EeEMTeZs